If Genie Was Real…
I Would Make This ‘One’ Wish.
NB: This is no fiction; it’s real. It’s my story, it’s my life.
Hi Brother, It’s been 365 days since we last communicated...at least physically. My defence mechanisms are still strong, yet do admit that you’re gone. Life, in the last one year has been different, yes…filled with pains, guilts, and regrets. I’ve lost count on the number of times i had to break down in tears.
Your decision was bad but I don’t hold that against you. You had so much on your mind. You were weak, tired, depressed and frustrated. I wish I was available bear those burdens, and talk, and pray. But it’s late now. Way too late.
But we also had some good Memories…yeah
Everyday, I’m ‘haunted' by the good memories we shared, wishing we could have them again. But that’s impossible…I guess.
- I remember your tiles scrubbing and toilet washing skills…no one can beat that till date.
- I learnt crazy meals from you eg cooked rice with Milk, Fried Wheat calling it pancakes, 😂😂😂 etc
- You’re the only one that can finish a full can Sure body spray in 3 days.
- You do give until there’s nothing to give.
- We would fight but you would still apologize for being wrong.
- Tell me the truth, even when I wasn’t willing to listen.
And Our Final Moments...
We finally saw each other in two years. My joy was limitless. First, I was seeing you again, and secondly, I would be convocating on the 24th of June, 2016.
The greetings, and hugs were on point. It was clear you had missed me. The joy, energy was visible.
We had also plans. I remember he said “We won’t allow the devil mess us like he took our parents” and he ensured I responded...which I did. My question is…What happened to that conviction?
i wish i was able to discern how deeply hurt you were at that point.
Now...
I regret those times I wasn’t available, I regret every one of them today. I’ve been an obedient fella all my life (still one though) , but for this I wished I had disobeyed and jumped exeats only to see you. I wish I had called consistently, as much as I thought of you. I thought of you every day but there was no corresponding action in regards to calls, messages, checkups.
196…19th of June.
Exactly, 15 minutes to 5pm, I stepped into the bus, I told you would be expecting you on Friday 24th of June for my convocation ceremony. Unknown to me, that would our final goodbyes.
Two hours later, I called, and then I heard you had been rushed to the hospital ‘cos you took ‘Sniper’(insecticide) whether consciously or unconsciously. The doctors, also did some nonsense also…I still hate them (doctors) for it though.
Later that night... He passed on.
Still remains my worst experience on earth.
Busayo…any lessons??
Definitely Yes.
- Even in our darkest moments, God’s love is ever present.
- Keep people close, but keep your family and loved ones closer. (48 laws of…love. LOL)
- Time spent with loved ones is never a waste, it’s one of the biggest investments.
- Learn to get close to people more than the ‘face value'
- Love God, Love People.
My Final Wish
Segun, If Genie was real, my only wish would be to bring you back.
Finally, I’m looking forward to doing something big and creative on 196. A platform to inform and inspire young folks. Feel free to reach me on Facebook, Twitter, IG, etc. I welcome Suggestions and partnerships also.
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